Parental Reinforcement on Secret Feelings
Empower parents to help their children express and manage unspoken emotions effectively.
Identifying Emotions
When was the last time my child tried to share something with me emotionally? How did I respond, and what might I do differently next time to show more understanding?
Are there certain topics or emotions my child may feel uncomfortable talking to me about? What can I do to make those subjects feel safer?
Have I ever unintentionally minimized my child’s feelings by saying things like “It’s not that big of a deal” or “Just forget about it”? What message might that send to them?
What creative outlets (e.g., journaling, drawing, music, movement) can I offer or encourage to help my child express emotions they don’t want to say out loud?
Do I listen to my child with full attention, or do I sometimes multitask or rush them? How can I improve my listening presence during emotional conversations?
What words or actions can I use more often to remind my child that I am always a safe person to come to—no matter how big or small the feeling is?
In what ways can I make it clear to my child that they don’t have to “have it all together” to be accepted and loved?
What’s one small habit I can build this week that creates more opportunities for open conversations with my child (e.g., bedtime check-ins, car ride talks, screen-free meals)?